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falling in love is a tricky business. it usually involves a lot of agony, screaming and whatnot. but it also has its good points.

the most significant thing, for me anyway, is the way you feel complete. like you have found the person who makes up for all ur flaws. your other half.

and when that person goes away from you, you always always feel hollow. like a part of you is missing. ..

and thats when you know, that you need this person in your life... always...

and even though the thought of being dependent and vulnerable scares the living crap out of you.. you will let go of your heart.coz thats what love is about. well a part of it anyway.

ps. i finished insaniquarium! yaaay!!

17 comments:

  1. shweeeeeet! said...

    umm..wen u miss sumone really badly, does that mean that u love that one too? =s  

  2. bulhaa said...

    kinda... but there are different kinds of love right?  

  3. Anonymous said...

    Love is a very complex subject. My blog is full of rantings and ravings about it.

    To someone like me, loving comes as naturally as breathing, which is a big fault of mine. But you know, some people need a lot of time, to realize that they are in love... and the consequences of being in love... like, getting married, getting children, living your entire life married to someone... depending on someone freaks them out.

    Which is a small problem, as I am a very free-spirited person. Different people cope with the dependency... in other words, life-long enslavement, by doing different things... I promptly dump my prospective spouse and become a radical ion again instead of forming a covalent bond.

    Maybe you are designed to accept it and be a slave.

    Ah, and if your SO/PS is not so significant after you get enspoused, then starts the real battle... of you know. The great American Fight for Freedom of the Oppressed Female Slaves.

    Or Maldivian, in your case.

    Oh yeah, I know the feeling of like, "a half of you is missing"... I hate it.


    - ユノミ  

  4. subcorpus said...

    falling in love is not tricky and nor is it a business ...
    falling in love doesnt involve agony ... screaming ...
    thats mostly for falling outta love ...
    while in love u may or may not feel complete ... this is sometimes a misinterpretation of athe fleeting feeling of euphoria ...
    when that person goes away u feel like an amputee ??? that cant be good dhoa ...
    and if that is when u know u r in love ... thats abd timing ... really bad ... coz its forced realiziation ... which may have been influenced by factors u dont wanna admit to ...
    have a been little negative here ...
    i'm sorry ...
    love is good i hear ... but so is peace ...
    god bless us all ...  

  5. gwynciar said...
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  6. gwynciar said...

    I always thought that if a long-distancer could last, the two people are either really committed or really desperate. Hehe.

    Apparently, relationships, psychologically, also act as memory banks: studies indicating sudden memory loss among recent-divorcees. Now there's a thought, innit? So, no wonder you feel like "youre missing a part of yourself".

    My personal opinion of love? Nobody under 18 has a clue of what it is, really. I always was of the opinion that you needed to be married some five years, and have broken your back and shed blood, sweat and tears for that object of love to know what love was. The shallow puppy love nowadays is just overrated and sickening, dontyathink? Easy come, easy go.

    I always believed that. Hypocrite I am, no?  

  7. bulhaa said...

    anonymous, ur blog? which is wat?

    subcorpus, each to his own :D

    gwynciar, memory loss ?? O_O creepy...  

  8. Anonymous said...

    don't tell me you stopped reading it?

    gwynciar... they prolly are really desperate... those long-distancers..

    - ユノミ  

  9. bulhaa said...

    i really cant tell you anythin unless u tell me which IS ur blog anonymous :S  

  10. Shanu said...

    The way people refer to the other person as their 'better half' and about feeling 'complete' doesnt sit well with me at all!!

    I think one should be complete,one shouldnt need another person to make one feel complete,its all a process and u grow and u become your 'complete self'..(both good and bad included, flaws arent necessarily a bad thing, u know,its what makes us ourselves and unique i reckon)

    When you fall in love you be your complete self and meet another complete person to become a more complete couple.. no half bussiness there!!

    :) as you said each to his or her own eh  

  11. Anonymous said...

    PSPSPSPSPS!!!!
    PPL!!!!  

  12. vincinity of obscenity said...

    love isnt really a thing.. ppl say that for sex. period.  

  13. Anonymous said...

    People say that for sex? Aww,u poor deprivd being.There there. But u r sumwhat right.SOME people DO say it that way.But not all  

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